Getting stuff

ONE OF THE many adventures connected to living on the hardscrabble outskirts of town is getting stuff, mostly stuff in the mail.

parcelThere is no house-to-house delivery in my neighborhood. What happens is that all the mail for a certain area is dropped off at a central spot, which can be a small, corner grocery or it can be somebody’s home.

You then have to go there, the store or the home of some stranger, and ask for your mail. Of course, you have to know mail has arrived in the first place. Nobody comes and tells you. It’s a mystery-challenge.

I avoid the problem most of the time by having a post office box downtown, which is where 99 percent of my pittance of mail goes.

The quantity is small due in large part to not getting junk mail like one gets above the Rio Bravo. I wonder if that’s still a problem up there, like dinnertime phone calls. I don’t get those anymore either.

But sometimes I buy stuff from Amazon, the Gringo version. Amazon just recently opened a Mexico branch, which is great. Here’s the problem with ordering from the Gringo version, which I still do if necessary when what I want is not on the Mexican site.

You never know how it’s going to be sent. Regular mail or express mail like FedEx or DHL. Asking does no good. And the express services do not deliver to post office boxes, or so they say. Mexican magic can make it happen on occasion, but don’t hold your breath for that.

So putting the delivery address on the Amazon package is like Russian Roulette. If I put the post office box and they send it DHL, I’ve got a problem. If I put my home address and it’s sent regular mail, I’ve got another problem, though not so serious.

My main problem with the central drop-off here in the neighborhood is that I’ve never trusted it. It seemed like a black hole.

On rare occasions in the past, when I knew something had been sent to my home address, I would go to the fellow’s house where all the mail is dropped off, just over the railroad track, and ask. His wife would answer the door. Or, more commonly, no one would answer.

If the wife answered, I would ask if her husband was home. He never was. I would ask for my mail. She would know absolutely nothing of the mail.  It was her husband’s job, not hers.

Repeated visits to the home got identical results. No answer or an absolutely clueless woman. Living here can be challenging.

A couple of weeks ago, I ordered camera accessories from the Gringo Amazon. For some reason, I assumed it would be sent express mail, so I put my home address on the package. It was sent snail mail instead.

Even so, Amazon provided tracking.

This morning, I checked. It was delivered yesterday, four days before the promised delivery of Aug. 10, next Monday. Though it had been “delivered,” it was nowhere in my line of sight.

Here’s where it gets juicy. That man who gets my mail in his home, the man with the clueless wife, the man who is never at home?

That man is the man I recently hired to weedeat my lawn. This means we have a personal relationship, very important, and not just that. I pay him money. He is now quite interested in me. I have hooked him.

Living in this country is all about personal relationships, which is why Mexicans have the reputation of being so freaking friendly.

Personal relationships facilitate lives. That’s true most everywhere, but it’s more true here. It can even keep you out of jail.

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While writing the above this afternoon, the doorbell rang. It was the package delivered by my “mailman” who weedeats the yard and lives just two blocks from here with the clueless woman.

The label says it arrived by something called MRU Post. I have no idea what that is. I have never heard of snail mail offering tracking, but this arrived in the typical two-weeks time of snail mail. It appears to be a new sort of snail mail. A Google search provided no answers.

It pays to have a personal relationship with the mailman. He never used to bring stuff to my house. Now he does. We are connected.

He likes the weedeating gig. And I like getting my mail.


15 thoughts on “Getting stuff

  1. You’ve nailed it! It’s all about the relationships. And if that works, why not. Here in the Californias, if you employ a Mexican for gardening, or whatever else, and they realize you are Mexican (and you speak in Spanish with them), they will do anything for you.


  2. Still get lots of junk mail. Especially bad around election time. Lots of dinnertime phone calls despite being on do-not-call list. But not much longer!


    1. Patzman: A mailbox full of trash is something I do not miss. Same for those dinnertime phone calls. As for “not much longer,” better get hoofing. You two are not getting any younger, you know. Mexico awaits you with open arms.


      1. We just burned our bridges. Escrow closed yesterday NOB. Esposa just arrived SOB. I arrive in 3 weeks. That is not much longer.

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  3. You make a good point about cash and relationships. The exchange of a few pesos greases the process. I always tip the postal clerks generously on Postman Day. It has proven to be one of my best investments in Mexico. All three of them go out of their way to ensure my letters, magazines, and packages timely get into my hands.


    1. Señor Cotton: Money talks everywhere. It’s just talks especially loud here. I too tip well on Postman Day, and I’ve always been happy with the postal service here. I read on Yahoo Gringo forums that focus on this area about how the Mexican mail is unreliable. Phooey, I say. Works fine, just a bit slow, but so what? Some folks complain that checks have been stolen from window envelopes. Well, maybe, but who gets checks in the mail these days? Not me. And a window envelope with a visible check has “take me outa here” written all over it. Send money online, I say. It’s why God invented PayPal and bank transfers.

      I’m still a bit mystified how my package arrived at the fellow’s house down the street. Tracking? I guess I could go ask him. I did not think about it when he handed it over yesterday. Tracking normally is an express service, but then it would have been delivered to my door, not to that guy’s house. Another Mexican mystery.


  4. Why don’t you get stuff delivered to your sister-in-law’s café? She’s always there, right?


    Kim G
    Wellfleet, MA
    Where the oysters are indeed all they’re cracked up to be.


      1. I’m currently in Wellfleet, on Cape Cod which (as you probably know) is famous for oysters. But when in Boston, I am at the Union Oyster House from time to time. When I worked downtown, I’d eat lunch there a few times a year. It’s definitely a place with “Ye Olde Boston Charm.”



    1. Kim: That’s an address I’ve used a couple of times. I’m a bit hesitant to send anything expensive there because the atmosphere is quite freewheeling and undisciplined. Mostly, the business is left in the hands of the kids who work there.


  5. In my city the postmen deliver the mail by motorcycle, which includes small packages. If you want to send mail to a post office box, you have to send it from your local post office.


    1. Andres: Most of town is covered by the motorbike postmen too, but not out here where I live. In my neighborhood they drop it, as mentioned, in a central location for the folks to pick up. As for my PO box, it is in my local post office. Very convenient.


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